Former Big Brother Naija housemate and actress Victoria Iye, popularly known as Vee, has revealed that one of her personal life goals is to ensure she does not get pregnant for the wrong man.
Speaking in a recent video shared on social media, Vee described dating, particularly in Lagos, as a difficult experience. She stressed that her priority is to avoid ending up with a baby daddy who could insult her or make her regret her decisions.
“It is my mission in life to avoid the wrong man getting me pregnant,” she said. “It is my own personal mission. It may not be your own mission, but it is mine. And it’s not to say I’m better than the women that have been in that position.”
The reality star, who turns 29 this year, explained that she knows herself well enough to avoid situations that could harm her mental health. “It’s simply because I know myself, I know what I’m like, and I try to avoid certain situations that would put me in a state of psychosis,” she said.
She added, “I’m passionate about not getting f*cked over and maybe that is what stops me from finding unapologetic love.”
Vee described herself as strong-willed but also wise in making relationship choices. “I’m stubborn. I’m hard-headed. But I’m not stupid. I need to make sure that when it comes to choosing a life partner, I try my best to get it right,” she stated.
She acknowledged that while no one can fully know another person, it is still possible to make careful decisions. “You can’t know someone 100 per cent, but you can try your best. People say experience is the best teacher, but not in my world,” she said. “Especially when there’s the internet where people are sharing their experiences. I don’t need to experience something to know that it’s not going to work for me.”
Reflecting on her age and growth, Vee said the past year had been a rewarding one. “I’m just turning 29. In other words, 28 was fantastic,” she noted.
